http://annaaniston.blogsome.com/2007/02/12/fear-of-failing-as-a-woman/ adventures of an anarchic anarchista Tue, 26 Aug 2008 13:05:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha http://annaaniston.blogsome.com/2007/02/12/fear-of-failing-as-a-woman/#comment-270 Tue, 13 Feb 2007 09:30:27 +0000 http://annaaniston.blogsome.com/2007/02/12/fear-of-failing-as-a-woman/#comment-270 i can relate to what youre saying here, at different times I have gotten involved in stuff and then when conflict arises my not handling things well either blowing up or running for the hills..discommunicating myself. Sometimes 'bringing issues up' naming the problems can make me feel like the Problem rather than just the one who SEES the problem. Working shit thru can freak people out too, have you heard of the Elephant (big problem)in the room that everyone pretends isn't there? And when a person says "I see an Elephant" everyone goes into denial and works together just pretending it doesn't exist so they don't have to deal with it. Confronting problems within groups can be scary for lots of people, but u are brave for sharing your truth.. keep on doing this! i can relate to what youre saying here, at different times I have gotten involved in stuff and then when conflict arises my not handling things well either blowing up or running for the hills..discommunicating myself. Sometimes ‘bringing issues up’ naming the problems can make me feel like the Problem rather than just the one who SEES the problem.
Working shit thru can freak people out too, have you heard of the Elephant (big problem)in the room that everyone pretends isn’t there? And when a person says “I see an Elephant” everyone goes into denial and works together just pretending it doesn’t exist so they don’t have to deal with it.
Confronting problems within groups can be scary for lots of people, but u are brave for sharing your truth.. keep on doing this!

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